Stop abandoning yourself. A little each day. Every time you make yourself smaller than you are. NO YES TO YOURSELF = NO REAL LIFE If you do not give yourself a clear yes, you are not living your life, but an adapted version of it. Then others try to categorise you, evaluate you, shape you. And you go along with it. Not because it is right — but because you do not trust yourself. As long as you do not accept yourself, you will search everywhere for validation. And it will neve

In the previous blog entry, we explored the control drama of the Interrogator. He displays behaviour rooted in control. The Unapproachable, like all control dramas, is also driven by control. By withdrawing from others, he repeatedly creates the feeling of drawing energy away from them. THE POWER OF UNAPPROACHABILITY These individuals are trapped within their own inner world of unresolved conflicts, fears, and self-doubt. Subconsciously, they believe that if they appear myste