In the previous articles on the control dramas, we explored the Intimidator, the Interrogator, and the Unapproachable. All three types inevitably encounter the “Poor Me” in order to give their drama its particular dynamic. When we recognise the key-and-lock principle between these types, we gain the opportunity to break the mechanisms of negative behavioural patterns. A control drama has little to do with true love. THE “POOR ME” These individuals believe they suffer from a l

In the previous blog entry, we explored the control drama of the Interrogator. He displays behaviour rooted in control. The Unapproachable, like all control dramas, is also driven by control. By withdrawing from others, he repeatedly creates the feeling of drawing energy away from them. THE POWER OF UNAPPROACHABILITY These individuals are trapped within their own inner world of unresolved conflicts, fears, and self-doubt. Subconsciously, they believe that if they appear myste

In the previous blog post, we explored Control Dramas in general. Here, I will begin to outline the specific types involved. You will most certainly recognise yourself in some of these dynamics. The series of upcoming posts will build upon one another. THE INTIMIDATOR These individuals draw attention — and therefore energy — to themselves through volume, physical force, threats, and unpredictable outbursts of temper. Intimidators dominate by keeping others in check through th