In this blog newsletter, I now write about the transformation of the “Intimidator.” What has unpleasant consequences on the fear side of polarity reveals itself as true power on the side of love. This becomes clear when we confront the hidden strength that lies within each of us. The same applies to the Intimidator. THE INTIMIDATOR Once the Intimidator connects with his true source of energy, he gradually gains self-confidence — a confidence that develops into genuine leaders

In the previous articles on the control dramas, we explored the Intimidator, the Interrogator, and the Unapproachable. All three types inevitably encounter the “Poor Me” in order to give their drama its particular dynamic. When we recognise the key-and-lock principle between these types, we gain the opportunity to break the mechanisms of negative behavioural patterns. A control drama has little to do with true love. THE “POOR ME” These individuals believe they suffer from a l

In the previous blog post, we looked at the Intimidator. This type displays overtly aggressive behaviour in order to drain energy from others. The Interrogator, too, operates through an aggressive form of energy theft. At first glance, however, it does not appear that way. Through doubt and control, they claim to want only the best for us. THE INTERROGATOR Although physically less threatening, these individuals are nevertheless capable of breaking a person’s will and spirit t

In the previous blog post, we explored Control Dramas in general. Here, I will begin to outline the specific types involved. You will most certainly recognise yourself in some of these dynamics. The series of upcoming posts will build upon one another. THE INTIMIDATOR These individuals draw attention — and therefore energy — to themselves through volume, physical force, threats, and unpredictable outbursts of temper. Intimidators dominate by keeping others in check through th